Frequently asked questions
A space for clarity, care, and connection.
Loveletter is a new way to make meaningful connections through the art of writing. It’s designed for those who crave depth, authenticity, and a slower, more intentional approach to dating or friendship.
You’ll start by engaging with Sparks — short text prompts and reflections. If a Spark resonates, you can dive deeper through Deep Sparks. If both users feel the connection, they can exchange profiles and unlock a First Date Idea, uniquely generated by our AI based on your shared energy.
It’s real dating — but slower, more thoughtful, and intentional. LoveLetter is built for emotional compatibility, and our ultimate goal is to help you connect meaningfully — online and offline, when the time is right.
Unlike traditional dating apps, we:
- Unlike traditional dating apps, we focus on the written connection instead of photos first.
- Use AI to understand your emotions and writing style.
- Offer curated first date ideas.
- Share a unique, story-like recap of your journey once you’ve matched.
- It’s like meetings meets journaling — and it’s deeply personal.
When two people fully match — after engaging with Sparks, sharing profiles, and agreeing on the First Date — we generate a Mutual Story. It’s a static narrative that summarizes your emotional journey and shared moments. It’s not editable. It’s just… yours.
Yes — until you choose to share your profile, your identity remains private. Your Spark responses are shared anonymously, and you control who sees your personal details.
Absolutely. We don’t tolerate harassment, hate, or manipulative behavior. All users must be 18+ and agree to our Community Guidelines. You can always block or report users, and our moderation team reviews all reports with care.
Yes, you can access all core features for free. We may introduce optional paid features in the future (like Boosts or deeper insights), but you’ll never have to pay to connect meaningfully.
Right now, LoveLetter is focused purely on text to encourage deeper connection. In the future, we may explore voice or photo-based features — always with consent and intention at the core.
LoveLetter is for anyone who:
- Feels tired of shallow dating apps.
- Connects better through words than looks.
- Wants something emotionally real.
- Believes in slow love, curiosity, and reflection.
Whether you’re shy, introspective, neurodivergent, disabled, or just someone who loves stories — we built this for you.
